Voices

I love this song called "Voices" by Saosin. Their whole cd is amazing. Every song gets better and better, but Voices makes a big impression on me. The chorus says "We speak in different voices when fighting with the ones we love, we speak in different voices why can't we say what we're thinking of." Isn't that so good? I love it because it is so true. If you think about all the times you have ever had an argument with someone, a lot of what you say is just said in anger. I know I have said "I hate you" to people when I'm arguing with them, even though I know that's not true. Why can't we say what we're thinking of? I know I like to keep most of my feelings inside because as hurt as I may be, I do not want to hurt that person by what I have to say. This is by far the worst way to handle any situation because all it does is hurt you, and it hurts the other person because your relationship with them will eventually end. However, sometimes the things people say in anger will end a relationship too. I know it is hard to not say hurtful things when you're angry. But why is that? Why is the point of an argument to put the other person down? Why is an argument always about who wins or loses because when you really think about it, who ever really wins? Fighting is so pointless. It never solves anything. It only makes matters worse. I have a temper and a smart mouth. Fighting has been a problem of mine for a long time. I've been so angry for a long time about my family, and I took it out on so many people. There is no telling how many people I have hurt in the past. I hate that because I want everyone to be happy. No one deserves to be treated that way. No problem should be solved by an argument, and actually no problem will ever be solved by an argument because arguments only make things worse. I encourage all of you to listen to this song. You should really buy the cd because every song is amazing.